I have been intrigued with how we as a people have become more and more expressive through the use of accessories. We color our hair, we tattoo our skin, we pierce our bodies in various and sundry places, and so forth. While there is nothing necessarily wrong with these things, I am surprised by how often people identify more with the accessory than what is underneath it.
What intrigues me is that people will often add things to themselves and then say, “This is who I am.” Now, it may be true that some sort of accessory may express what is happening inside. However, I like to think that the person is the person. If you pierce your eyelid, then it is you with a pierced eyelid. If you color your hair purple, it is you with purple hair – an alteration of your actual hair color.
I suppose that I should also say that I have no objection to a person accessorizing (sp?) as they see fit. I do, however, find it troubling that we can start to associate beauty more with the accessory than with the actual person. So, a woman may feel that she needs to pierce herself or modify her body in some other way not because of any desire that comes naturally from within her, but from outside pressures that tell her she must do x and y in order to be beautiful. As a father, this breaks my heart.
From where I sit, on my couch on a Saturday afternoon, I like to think that beauty comes from the Creator. As humans, we all bear the image of God and have intrinsic beauty. It is good and healthy for us to maintain our health, but there should be no need for us to feel compelled to transform ourselves into the mold that that someone else has made for us.
Have a great weekend!